Weekend hike

Dad just catchin up

Hi all,

I haven't written for awhile (Bad Dad!! 😫) so thought I'd catch up a little.

I had an odd but actually fun experience on Friday.  Late in the afternoon I got a call at work from two of my Hermana (Hermana = "Sister" in Spanish) missionaries.  They were in rush hour traffic at a particularly busy intersection in town and their car stalled!  Well, I got a tow truck called for them and a garage ready to receive them once we got the car towed to them.  I headed to them myself in our Mission pickup also.  I called the police to see if an Officer could go there and help block traffic but they asked me if this was really an emergency because they only had one officer "available" and he was headed to a call where someone had a gun!

So I got there and they had put on their flashers but were just sitting there like I told them to.  I pulled up behind them in my pickup, parked, and put on my flashers.  At least now if someone crashed us from behind, it would just be the pickup and not them!  But then I put on my old MP personna and got out and directed traffic around us!  I was standing there in traffic and directed two very busy lanes of traffic to go around us for probably 20 minutes or so!  It was so much fun!  I had two people flip me off but I also had several people compliment me, laugh for (at?) me, I had brief (like 20-second) conversations with a half dozen drivers, one turned up his radio music just for me, and three drivers that wanted to quickly change lanes when I was directing them to stop and I had to move right in front of them to stop them!

I was hoping that I was looking odd but sort of official; a big guy in a dark suit with white shirt and tie and some kind of "badge" (missionary name tag) on. 

Finally an Officer arrived and he helped stop some traffic so that we could push the car off the road (across three lanes of on-coming traffic), to a parking lot where it was much safer.   Anyway, it turned out fine and we go the car to a garage without me or the Hermanas being hurt!

I ALMOST got to swim with dolphins!  We were invited to a member's beach house for a BBQ/swimming a week ago on Saturday.  While there, I was out swimming kind of with the kids. They played in shallow water.  It's still a curious thing to me that Californian's just typically do not actually go swimming much.  They eat and socialize on the beach, play with their little kids with sand castles, or boogie board or surf, but don't go out swimming!!  But at one point I decided to just swim out into deep water just for fun.  Later, they told me from on shore that they had been watching me and they saw that a pod of dolphins had appeared about a hundred yards or so out in deeper water and they thought that I had seen them and was swimming out to be with them.  But I had not seen them; Dang, I would have swam out there if I had known they were there.

Yesterday, Sister Iverson and I went on a temple double date withe Floyd's (the other senior couple in the Mission Office with us).  Just by chance, we happened to get into a session that was Spanish-speaking!  And it was a huge session - probably 200 people!  We, along with several other English-speaking people, were given headphones.  One channel in the headphones was the session in English but there were 8 channels and each channel carried a different language (German, French, Portuguese, plus others). One effect on me was that I needed to really concentrate more than I have before and so this session was one of the best I have attended.  Partly, I've come to learn or realize that when Adam and Eve were married in the Garden, that at that time, there was no time limit to their lives; they were still immortal.   So they were married for "all eternity"; now, of course, we are mortal and so we are married "for time (and for all eternity.)".  

Later we were able to talk for about 10 minutes with a Temple Presidency Counselor and he answered a couple questions for us.  

I have had experiences in my life when I came way from them with this intense feeling like I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted to never sin again.  It's intense and I love it.  But I've had more such experiences while serving on this mission than any other span of time in my life.  Now my task is to develop that intensity of righteous desire to be with me all the time!  

We had kind of a downer night last Thursday that I'm trying to make more positive for me.  we held out first Stake Self-Reliance training meeting.  We felt we "advertised" it enough and were trying to think of how many handouts to make, chairs to set up, etc.  Should it be 30 or 40 or whatever??  But we were ready and 7:00 came and went and no one wa there! ?Finally at 7:15 one person showed up.  We did teach him what we intended (I had a "Me in 30 Seconds" job search tool to teach) but only one person from a total of 8 wards showed up1  😒 Mom observed that maybe that's a sign that no one in the stake needs a job!!!  Good news!!  

Had a talk with our Stake Presidency Counselor today.  I think we just have not laid a good enough "foundation" for Stake Self Reliance Specialists or bishops of what we're trying to offer and who should do what.  We're going to order more supplies, talk more with the bishops - we are now on the agenda for next Sunday evening at a Stake Bishopric training meeting, to give a "Us in 300 Seconds" lesson to them all!   This is the typical way new start-up ventures go.  We agreed that the doctrine of true self-reliance needs to be taught more to our members.  

Well, gotta go.

Love you all. The gospel is true and Heavenly Father loves each of us. Mom spent 20 minutes on the phone last night with one of our investigators - Lindsay! We also got a really sweet text from Jake Miller's mother who said that our efforts with her son to prepare him for death in the Plan of Salvation has positively affected not only Jake (she is sure) but many many others, especially her.  We have not received a reply from Devin's mother yet; I pray for her to soften her heart a bit to let us socialize with her son.

Dad/G-pa

Iverson's Update

29Aug2016

Dear Bishop Carter,

Wow, it’s been six months ago today that we checked in at the MTC!  The time has just flown by and it’s been exciting.  We do love the physical environment here as the temperature here is consistently in the 60’s-80’s.  Contrary to our expectations, the skies here are not sunny all the time; it is typically overcast in the morning and then clears to sunny skies mid-day.  Oh well, our lives are busy enough with mission activity that we very seldom get out to recreational activities such as the beaches, etc.

California continues to be in a drought; we had rain the very first day of our arrival on March 12^th but not a single day of rain since then!  Forest fires are again plaguing us. 

We have had some poignant news with one of our less-active members who we got very close to, a man named Jake Miller.  Jake got heavily into drugs and alcohol in his late teens and well into his 30’s when we met him.  However, he was beginning to show real interest in renewed activity when his body just gave up from all the alcoholic abuse it had received.  He died here but we, as well as the Bishop and the EQ President, did have some success in teaching him of what to expect when he died.  Sister Iverson especially was able to assure him that he wasn’t going to the traditional “hell” that he believed was his fate.  He died with some peace that Jesus Christ loved him dearly.

We had another investigator, Devin, who we and the proselyting missionaries met with numerous times and taught him lessons all the way through his commitment to baptism.  However, his mother, a practicing Buddhist, stepped in days before his baptism date and told us to stop visiting and teaching him.  He does have somewhat of a disability and she does control his life in many respects.  We’re trying to have her reconsider to the point of letting him just continue to socialize with us without us teaching him one-on-one.  Pray for her to have a softening of her heart.  I know that he wants it. His life has improved and we hope that his mother realizes it and lets him continue with us.  She’s a very loving and protective mother; a good woman I’m sure.

We’ve had great success with three other investigators who have been baptized and who are totally active and are on a steep curve in having their testimonies grow.  Anthony and Loreen Godinez (married) and Fred Ward (single man) have callings, pray in Sacrament, are Ward missionaries or Gospel Principles class teachers, and on and on.  Very fun times!

Our role in the Ward is changing in some ways.  Sister Iverson and I have been called as the new Stake Self-Reliance Center Specialists Coordinators.  The Self-Reliance program is gradually being instituted in place of the LDS Employment program.  The employment program has been non-existent in the Stake for several years so this is a new experience for the Stake as well as Sister Iverson and myself.  Very exciting and challenging.  With this new responsibility, we will be visiting other wards quite a bit so our time with our Ward will be changing.

We continue to be totally active with our Mission Office duties.  We work with another great Senior Missionary couple, the Floyd’s, who also work in the office with us daily.  We have the best of worlds in one way; most of our waking hours are in association with either the other Senior Missionaries, the Mission President and wife, and the proselyting missionaries.  All of them are people with vibrant energy, priesthood experience, and testimonies.  I spoke to a lady at a local fruit stand recently.  She is a seasonal worker and will shortly be looking for more work.  I gave her a pass-along card (sort of my church business card) attached to an ldsjobs.org instruction sheet.  I only know her as “Linda from the fruit-stand” so far!  I hope to hear from her sometime to help her with employment.

While we certainly knew that Californians surf a lot, it’s been a surprise of how very common it is with all ages here.  I believe surfing here is much like snow-skiing or snow-boarding is to Utahans.  We see surfboards on car tops all the time here.  It’s also a bit different here of seeing so very many tattoo shops and we see many many people here with extensive tattoos on them.  With the warm temperatures here, clothing is a bit sparse and so tattoos are very evident.  However, our friend Jake was also one that had major tattooing, some rather indecent clothing, and looked like a pretty rough character.  We grew to love him as a brother. He also was a child of God as are all others here.

We do love our missionaries here so much.  In our contacts with them, they are such an obedient group.  They report to me with their vehicle situations and letting me know when they’ve complied with some task I’ve given them.  They’ve called me when they’ve gotten a traffic violation and feel very broken-hearted when this has happened.  We’ve had accidents but, thankfully, none with injuries.  I have 74 vehicles to manage.  Sister Iverson continues with her Mission Secretary duties and is super with it.  Our missionaries love coming to the Office mainly to see Sister Iverson I think!  She is always a step or two ahead of the requests from President Felix or his wife.  I think that Sister Iverson and Sister Felix almost are competing to see who can be the first to think of something the furthest ahead of in the calendar to plan for. So far, Sister Iverson is winning!  I believe she now has letters to missionaries, their parents, Stake Presidents, and Bishops ready for the Mission President to sign as far out as November!

It’s been curious to watch the development of Sister Iverson and me working together in a sort of professional setting.  I have gradually been learning how to delegate some of my duties to her to help me stay abreast of my duties.  We work well together.

As I know you’re aware, the Flandro’s will be moving out of our house in a week or so and the Bruce’s moving in.  We’ve heard that the Flandro’s may be able to move into another house within the Ward boundaries.  That would be so great.  They are such good people.

Our families are doing well.  Little Henry is coping with his cancer. The recent surgery went well with about 95% of the tumor removed and he’s now coping with the rigors of radiation treatment.  It’s tough but he’s developed into a very tough little boy.  We’ve seen the Lord’s hand in tangible blessings to our family members with better and best job developments, successful house moves, and spiritual growth, evidenced even in our youngest grandchildren. 

When I consider that we have four Senior Missionary Office Specialists (the Floyd’s and us) who put in about 160+ hours per week and that some missions have to use proselyting missionaries to try to do what we do, it’s so evident of how valuable Senior Missionaries can be to a Mission.  We free up the time for our missionaries to do what they do best – find and teach – while we do what we do best (admin tasks).  Whatever the specific assignments that Senior Missionaries receive, we so highly recommend any Senior in our ward there to make that commitment.  Whether their circumstances are such that they serve an at-home mission or can serve away from home, Seniors are vital to the work of the Kingdom.  We do indeed feel so very needed and useful here.  I don’t think I’ve ever had a six-month period of time fly by as quickly as these past six months have done.  We do admin duties, we visit the sick in hospitals, we’ve visited a prisoner in jail here, we’ve helped an alcoholic find peace, and we’ve helped a man with a mental illness feel more at home in social situations as well as with his relationship with God.  We will be helping people find means to be more self-reliant.  Perhaps most of all, we’ve increased in our testimonies and our love for people. 

Our ward here does something different than what I’ve seen before.  There are almost zero announcements at the beginning of Sacrament service.  But after the closing prayer, the Bishopric member conducting takes about five minutes and makes basic announcements.  I believe the intent is to keep a smooth transition of reverence before and into Sacrament and to save the temporal announcement time for after the Sacrament service is done.

Enough for now.  Please let the Ward know of how much we miss them but of how much we’re enjoying being here and serving. 

Elder and Sister Iverson

Hi from Ventura California

Dear Friends and Family,

Wow I can not believe it is time to start school again. This summer has 

been busy and has just flown by so quickly.  I found a Lake shore 

store very close to our apt and just had to go in and look around. So 

fun to see all the school things and fun science and math projects and

 art and music. All the things they have in the catalog for teachers but 

to actually be in the store was so fun. Well kind of like torture since I did

 not have a class to buy things for, so felt I was in teacher dream land but 

nothing i needed. I was happy when the Mission president said he needed

 a ream of lined paper and I volunteered to go get some and walk down 

the school supply aisles. But I do not go out shopping much but was fun to 

explore that store. smile

You know how in Utah we were warned (in a very nice way) to lock our car 

doors in the summer time when we go to church? So well meaning friendly 

people would not load you up with extra zucchini from their over productive

 gardens? Well it is kind of like that here except the people have an over 

abundance of avocados and lemons.  So I am trying to be very helpful and 

take some extra lemons and avocados!  Fun to smell those fresh lemons. I did

 miss our cherry tree, especially when I saw cherries in the store for $5 a pound. 

So we skipped those and had strawberries and mangos. Anna did send some 

cherries out to us this year so was fun to have some to eat.

We went up to Morro Bay this past weekend and it is so pretty there. Sorry we 

did not see the Jewel of Morro Bay there (if you saw the Finding Dory Movie

 you would know). But there is this huge rock the last of the volcano there 

and it is a sacred rock that the Native Americans only climb once a year 

but others can not get on it. But we can hike around it - well 2/3 around it. 

We saw some very friendly squirrels and a group of sea otters just lazing 

around enjoying the sunny day and the friendly people taking their 

pictures. smile. We also heard and saw some lively seals. Discussing 

who had the last fish, and who was taking up all the room on the dock. 

Fun to see different animals in the wild. Morro Bay is about 2 1/2 -3 hours 

north west of us so was fun drive up there. There is a big fire in one of the 

cities along the way so saw lots of smoke from that. Makes some pretty sunsets

 but so sad for people losing their property and farm land. 

We were able to go to the local Ventura County fair here one day. Senior citizen 

day so we got in free. I guess it helps to be "old"!! smile  They only have county

 fairs here since the cities are pretty big and they do not have state fairs since 

there would be too many people to accommodate. Saw lots of fun craft and 

canning projects and animals and art and photography exhibits. So fun to see 

the art show as MANY of the pictures were taken in Utah! And the grand prize 

picture by an amateur was of  the Salt Lake Temple.  Then in the evening they 

have a concert with different singers each night of the fair.  2 nights of Rodeos, 

and 2 nights of car races and then the rest are singing ones. The fair goes on

 for 2 weeks, so lots of concerts to choose from. We saw Patti LaBelle sing and

 was so fun to hear some of her songs and see her in person.  We had our own

 show of some real fans of Patti LaBelle in front of us and were singing  and 

dancing to most of her songs. Quite the harmony and just as much fun watching 

them perform and sing along and dance! smile

WE had quite a fun month with 23 new missionaries coming here.  We had to 

rent a larger van to help pick up all the missionaries. Steve and I drove up with 

a trailer for all the luggage and the mission president and his wife drove another

 large van and the assistants drove a van. So it is truly amazing to get them all 

here close to the same time. Most are coming from the Provo MTC but one was

 coming from the Mexico MTC since she was learning Spanish, another was coming

 from Canada ( was waiting for his visa to come into the US)  and another was 

coming directly from her home since she had been on her mission but had to go 

home for a bit for medical problems and then was returning here to finish her

 mission in the states. So i think it is amazing they can all get here within 30 minutes 

of all 23!! So we take them to the beach which is about 1/2 mile from the airport 

and give them a snack and a drink and of course they all want to take pictures! I am

 not sure if that is torture or not since they can see the beautiful beach and water

 but can not get in. But they get a beautiful view of the Calif beach and ocean. Then

 back to Ventura and since the mission home is not large enough for all of them we

 have members who live close by, have them stay there for the first night. then back

 to the mission home for breakfast and I go pick up many of them and bring them 

to the mission office (which is in the stake center church) and then I have lunch 

ready for them. Their new companions come to the lunch also. So they are 

about 50 missionaries there, so we decided to order sub sandwiches  instead

 of cooking something for them all. We had 4 six foot subs, grapes, cookies 

and chips. They ate it all. Then we give them about an hour orientation 

 and send them off with their new companions. Fun and busy day!

We had a ward beach party and  Steve and a young man we are teaching 

came and were about the only adults in the water. The kids were in the water

 but the adults talked on the beach. But the missionaries from our ward came 

and got to at least take off their shoes and wiggle their toes in the sand. smile 

But fun to go play at the beach. Oh they are having a Halloween party or activity 

coming up and they said they have a parade of the kids in costumes, but I had to

 chuckle a bit thinking they did not have to plan for the Halloween costumes to

 fit over a jacket like we do in MInnesota and Utah some years.

WE are doing well and enjoying the weather and beautiful world we live in. I 

was talking to a man here and asked if the leaves on the trees fall off in the

 autumn time. He said most of them don't lose their leaves so that will be quite

 interesting to see. But then he said there is one tree that loses its leaves for 

about 4 months and i told him that was about as long as we Have leaves on our 

trees in Utah.  Oh and when we arrived out here in March they had lemons on

 the trees and now the next batch is coming on again. 

We have a family here - Danny and Deann Anderson. Brother Anderson stopped

 me in the hall and told me they were going to visit Logan soon to see Sister 

Anderson's sister. I asked who her sister was and he said Sue Germany! Well 

we know Curtis and Sue Germany from Logan!! They are called on a mission

 in London and will be serving with the Warnicks!! Small world. Then this Sunday 

Brother and Sister Germany were here visiting the Anderson family  so fun to see 

them here!

Hope you are doing well. The people are great and so fun to meet new people

 and new experiences. We have many new people all summer long come visit 

church and most come out to visit families or they used to live here or just on

 vacation and stopping in for the week. 

Have a great week and fun school year!!

love you,

Diane

Sad and fun stuff

Hi everyone, 

Jake died last night about 1 am.  While it's sad to lose a close friend to death, he was suffering so much, both just recently but throughout the last several years due to his alcohol addiction. His liver just got so badly scarred that it could no longer function and he was in misery.

However, Mom and I, along with others,were able to visit with him and teach him somewhat of Heavenly Father's Plan of Salvation.  While he was conscious and we were actually out shopping, Mom had some quiet moments with him where she taught him that there are many places in Heavenly Father's kingdom, nearly all of which are happy places to be, better than this life in many ways.  Jake had thought that there was only a Heaven and a Hell and he was certain that he was headed to Hell.  Mom opened his eyes and spirit that he did indeed have hope for a better life and that Jesus would welcome him.  Bishop Hooke was also able to visit him and teach him when he was conscious and teach him more details about the Plan of Salvation, the Atonement, what to expect in the next life when he dies (main lesson was for Jake to say "Yes" to every option that was to be taught and given to him!).  Mom and I talked to him, as well as offered a long conversation-like prayer with him, much of it when he was just semi-conscious, also about salvation, repentance, forgiveness, atonement, and what to expect when he dies.  

I also gave him a PH blessing last week before his sister, Lindsay arrived, that he would keep living through her visit and that he needed to muster all his strength and strength of spirits around him to connect, even if briefly, with her.  I then released him from life after her visit.  Lindsay was able to talk several times to Jake on the phone before she got here. He continued to live for her entire visit. He very briefly (just for seconds) connected with her during her visit. Lindsay saw Jake late Sunday and left town Monday morning about 6 am; Jake then died 19 hours later.

But we have fun as well!!  Elder Floyd, in his role as Mission Housing Coordinator, very often has to provide new box springs and mattresses to apartments.  Mom and I saw a pickup loaded with a lot of used mattresses and, thinking of Elder Floyd, took a photo and made it into a PowerPoint fun slide for Elder Floyd (attached).  He loved it.

Our investigator, Devin, is still progressing.  He's not understanding the Book of Mormon as closely as he wants so we're postponing his baptism but not too long.  He comes to every single church function we have.  He's wearing a white shirt and tie.  He's given up coffee and tea now for three weeks.  He's opened up to the missionaries more now on his disability - paranoid schizophrenia.  He's been alcohol-free now for about 3 months.  All's good!

We've now been given physical keys for the Stake Center building and the LDS Employment Center room!  We've given brief instruction to Bishoprics on our employment plans.  We're getting calls from members now.  We're giving training on Sep 1st; so now we gotta figure out what to train!!  We're talking to Elder Wilde, Area 70, on this work. He's got a "70" meeting this Saturday and will find out more of what we need to know then!  Exciting times!

We visited a member in jail on Sunday.  Good visiting; very different for us.  Jail is a very very sad and dreary place.  Very dark spiritually.  But this man is doing his best and will likely be out of jail by the end of August.  Then back to his job as a Physician's Assistant.  He's got 10 surgeries lined up that he needs to assist with!

Enough for now.  Oh, we were in a Stake Conference meeting just for new members or returned less-actives.  There was a deaf interpreter there.  However, it turned out that she was also the only piano player. So when she got up to play, Mom just jumped into her place and interpreted for the deaf member in signing!  She's a remarkable woman!!

The other photo is Mom and Sister (Lavonne) Floyd when we double-dated to the Ventura County Fair and were at the horse show.  We also went to a concert where Patty Labelle was the singer - not exactly my kind of music but it was fun being out with Mom and friends.  i tried two of the funnel cakes and, surprisingly, neither one was very good.  Bummer!

Gotta go.

Love, Dad

Ventura County Fair pictures

Devin & Dad at the beach party on Saturday

Stilt walkers at the Fair

Dad, the Rabbit Whisperer 

Horse show at the Fair - we thought of Allison!

Some big furry creature liked Dad!

The Floyds and us before the concert

Sunset at the concert before it started

Dad and I

Patti LaBelle - entertainment at the Ventura County Fair

Happy Fast Sunday

Hi everyone!

We've got a few minutes before we leave for Ward Council meeting so thought I'd

 squeeze in a few lines.

Yesterday we had a Ward beach party.  It hadn't been "advertised" all that much 

so we only had maybe 40 people come instead of more but it was fun.  We took 

our latest investigator, Devin, to it.  He is a really nice guy but very very quiet.  He's

 not anti-social, he just isn't a very social type of guy.  But the Elders, your Mom,

 and I visited him yesterday at his hotel where he lives in downtown Ventura.  Elder 

Gibb had suggested the day before when we met with him that perhaps it would be

 a good idea to go to his room and say a special prayer to invite the Spirit to be there 

more.  So we did that.  It was a combination of a prayer and a Priesthood home 

dedication.  It was kind of ironic that we happened to pick a day and time of day 

when the county fair is going on and there was a parade going right past his hotel 

when we were praying and the passing band was playing LOUD!

The Elders arranged for him to be taught almost every day now, some of it just reading

 the Book of Mormon together with him and explaining it as they go.  We started yesterday 

with the Introduction.  

I found it amusing at the beach party that, aside from the kids getting into the water more 

or less to waist-high depth, no one else really got into the water for swimming, boogie-boarding, 

or anything!  Well, except for Devin and me!  I had gone in earlier right after hotdogs and

 then invited Devin to come in.  He did and I guess he can swim but he just floated around

 on the boogie-board.  I went in again later and did a swim, maybe a half-mile out and around 

the buoys! Glad to see that I can still actually swim!  But I think Californians go to the beach 

to either, 1) surf if surf's up, 2) sunbathe, 3) play with kids in the sand.  This beach didn't have 

any waves big enough to really ride them so everyone just stayed on the beach, ate, and sunbathed!

We were told of a member who is in jail in town so we visited him yesterday.  His story is

 that he's an active member.  He had flown back into the USA from OCONUS, met his girlfriend 

in the airport, and then some local guys drinking started flirting with his girlfriend.  A fight 

ensued and he was badly beaten and then accused (and convicted) of assault and battery! T

he "local guys" were off-duty cops!  He's been in jail now for 105 days.  He's read 47 books 

including three times through the Book of Mormon!  He's known now in the jail as "Prophet"!  

We'll visit him again.

Well, we gotta go soon so this is enough for now.

 Some kids were building sand castles and asked me for help.  I thought of how much fun it would have

been if we could have been doing that with our grandkids.  But we will someday when Gma and I come 

home from our mission.  

Love and miss you all,

Dad/Gpa